- Which hospital you want to give birth in, if indeed you want to give birth in a hospital
- What sort of "care model" you want to use (and there's about a hundred of them)
- Which obstetrician you want to use, if you want to use an obstetrician
- Several hundred other small details of which I am as yet unaware.
We're going to meet the guy who we think will be your obstetrician on Wednesday next week, so I'll let you know what he's like.
All this kerfuffle and rigmarole is difficult. In many ways it re-iterates the feelings I'm having of being in the dark and not really knowing how this all works. I have a theory that it's going to get better, and I certainly hope that by the time you get here I'll at least be able to maintain the semblance of knowing what I'm doing....
love you pumpkin.